I dont necessarily share all of his views in this post but this is a good read. Enjoy!!
I Need A Strong Black Woman… Does Anyone Know Where I Can Find One?
Posted in Relationships on 01. Sep, 2010
Photo By Don Morris via The Many Love Of Xilla Vol 1. Mixtape
I need a strong Black woman. Let me say that again, I need a STRONG Black WOMAN! I know what you’re thinking, right now. I’m a strong Black Woman, I got a job, I got it on my own, and I don’t need no man for anything. Well by saying that, you are letting me know you are not a strong black woman. Because a strong Black woman needs a man. Find a woman who can tell me Michelle Obama doesn’t need Barack Obama, and I’ll sell you an underwater island. I can tell by the way Michelle looks at Barack that she needs him with all of her heart, because that’s what you do when you’re in love. Real love. Not this artificial stuff they feed you online. I need a strong Black woman.
When I say I need a strong woman it’s because only a strong woman would be able to put up with my lifestyle and not constantly give me a headache. My woman needs to be secure enough to deal with the few women who send me naked and half naked pictures. I don’t need to have arguments over something I can’t control. Don’t get me wrong I like looking at sexy bodies, but I’m just looking. It’s no different than when Chris Brown or Trey Songz make a sexy video. She’s not sleeping with Trey Songz she’s only looking. Why would I be mad? Imagine if an artist started saying hey I have a strong black woman on my arm stop fantasizing about me. We don’t have to look hard to see an example of the consequences of that!
I also need a strong woman who can make decisions and handle life events when I am not around. I work all hours of the day. I wake up at 7am and don’t get into the house until 2am. Some days I get in later. Some nights I come home reeking of high priced liquor being poured for free thanks to the promotional efforts of some company who wants coverage for their product, rapper or movie. A weak woman would think I’m just out having a good time, but a strong woman would know it’s just work. She should know this by the fact that she sees me wake up at the crack of dawn every day, pulling pictures and writing blogs.
Most importantly I need a strong woman who can match my intensity at the same goal. Our future. I’m relentless working on a goal to become wealthy so my kids and my family don’t have to struggle any more. I don’t need senseless arguments, about blogs, women I barely know, or women I know and I’m just cool with because she models, sings or is simply finer than the baby hairs on the back of Cassie’s neck. So I need a strong woman, a woman strong enough to deal with a lot, a woman strong enough to admit that she needs me. I need a woman strong enough not to give me drama at every little event on my life. I also need a strong woman who can hold down the fort when I’m not available one who doesn’t require me to stop the things I’m doing to handle minor issues. Because if a woman can’t handle a minor issue how can I trust her with the fortune I’m on the road to making? Weak woman can become strong, average woman can be strong as well, and strong woman can become weak. It takes a man to make sure he can build and support a strong woman and it all comes via communication.
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Oh, wow!!! I really liked that!!! Again, as you said, not every single things he wrote I liked but, it was definitely a good read!!!
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